Many of us who have been left alone
by someone we dearly loved still wallow in self-pity and incessantly ask
ourselves where we went wrong. We waste our time searching for answers that may
never be revealed to us. Why can’t we just accept that love doesn’t give us the
license to own a person - that love doesn’t guarantee permanence. There are
times when we just have to let go of someone who means the world to us not
because we want to but because it is the right thing to do. We cannot force
anyone to love us when they don’t want to love us anymore. We cannot beg
someone to stay when he wants to leave and be with someone else. This is what
love is all about. It is all about sacrifice. It is all about learning. It is
all about accepting everything without holding anything back or throwing
anything away. The end of love is not the end of life. It should be the
beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason. Love leaves with a
lesson and it is only when we learn from it that we are able to earn the wisdom
and the courage move on and find love again.
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